Congratulations! You've reached what is likely your final week of this pregnancy. If you haven't delivered already, it's almost time to meet your little one! Your hospital bag is packed (if it isn't, it should be!), or the baby pool is set up in its birthing place, and you are ready to go. The nursery is ready, or very nearly ready, and you have the car seat installed. Remember to ensure the car seat complies with Canadian safety standards (CMVSS). You even have your baby's first outfit selected and placed out.
You've been patient for nine whole months, and the time is finally here! Just remember, when you go into labour, staying calm is essential. There usually is no need to rush to the hospital or birthing centre. For most, early labour typically lasts about 13 hours. If your water suddenly breaks, don’t immediately rush out the door! Take a little time to make sure you have everything you need. If you have older children, ensure they have adult supervision and are cared for. And then drive safely. You may even prefer to stay home until your contractions are closer together. When you first contact your healthcare provider, they should be able to tell you how long to wait before you head to the hospital or before they head to your home.
Labour is typically broken down into three stages, beginning when your contractions become regular and ending after you deliver the placenta. When your contractions start to pick up, you are in the active phase of the first stage. Between this active phase and the next, known as the transition phase, you need to get to the hospital, birthing centre, or home, as planned with your midwife. During the transition phase, your contractions grow closer together.
The second stage of labour is when you give birth to your baby! Your contractions will become more regular, with less and less time passing between them, and they will feel much stronger. You will either feel the need to push or like you need to pass a stool. If you have received pain medication, you may not feel this urge to push, and you'll be directed on what to do. The birth of your baby signals the end of the second stage of labour.
Within 30 minutes of giving birth, usually within five to ten minutes of delivery of your baby, you will be told to push again. You will then deliver the placenta. However, you will probably be preoccupied with the new baby in your arms. The placenta is much smaller than the little newborn you’ve just pushed out and has no bones, and once it is out, there is a lot of relief.
Even though 40 weeks seems like a long time, you may still have another week or two to go. A baby's due date is merely an estimate, and your baby will arrive when they are fully ready! All you can do in the meantime is relax, enjoy these final pregnant moments, and rest. This is happening!